It all starts at mealtime
Joe Fitzpatrick knows the value of family dinners, because it has become a tradition in his household every weekend. Fitzpatrick, author of the gourmet cookbook Strictly Sundays from Book Publisher’s Network (www.strictlysundays.com), believes his Sunday dinners are what help keep his family close. It was part of how he was raised.
“Ever since I was a little boy I enjoyed helping my mother cook in the kitchen,” he said. “She made it fun and I learned a lot. Of course that was in the 1960’s when the only cook on television was Julia Child. There were no fancy spices or sauces used in our house and all the meals were pretty basic, but that didn’t matter. I remember the time we spent together, and it helped shape my attitudes when I had children of my own.”
Fitzpatrick’s focus on mealtime evolved out of the experience most people are having today – working hard with a tight budget, and not having much time for family.
“I owned a business in the 1980’s and spent little time at home,” he said. “My wife and I would make it a point to go out to dinner every Saturday night to spend some time with each other. When the business went away so did the money. But I still liked good food. I subscribed to Bon Appetite magazine and started to make unique intimate dinners for the two of us on Saturday nights.”
When the kids got wind of the Saturday night dinners, they felt like they were missing out on something good. They were right.
“Then our children got older, saw what we were having for our Saturday night gourmet dinner and asked why they didn’t get special meals too,” Fitzpatrick added. “So I started to explore and create both new and traditional dinners for them on Sunday nights. When the kids had jobs, I made a rule that Sunday was for faith & family, no exceptions. They almost never missed one of my Sunday dinners. And as they have grown and established their own lives, they still come home once a week to help in the kitchen and help me create these fabulous meals. It used to be about the food. Now, it’s more about being together.”
(Tony Panaccio is a staff writer for News & Experts Syndicate.)
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