The holiday season is typically marked by parents and kids trying to be on their best behavior. Parents are more charitable, kids are busy not pouting and not crying because they are afraid of the jolly fat man catching them.
While all these good thoughts and good deeds are, well, good, the question that Mary Jane McKittrick wants to ask is, “Why can’t people be kind and caring all year ‘round?” McKittrick, creator of the children’s book world of Boomer and Halley (www.boomerandhalley.com), wants to encourage holiday do-gooders to act the same way whether they are preparing for winter solstice or summer vacation.
“It’s time for Americans to blaze a trail back to a culture of kindness that actually works,” she said. “Kids need a roadmap to follow. The last few generations have lost their way, and the results are crippling this country. Kids are raised with a sense of entitlement that leaves them unprepared to cope with the hard work of economic recovery. When the economy was booming, we focused on material things to such an extent that something really important got lost. We forgot how to teach youngsters the basic values of kindness, consideration, self-sacrifice, and hard work – the ingredients that built America and made it strong. So, as we approach this season of goodwill, here’s what I propose: Let’s extend good will to all days and months of the year. I challenge each one of us to live the values we want to see in others instead of just talking about them, or complaining about the lack of them.”
McKittrick’s response to the lack of these traditional values was to use her fictional small town of Shady Pines, with her lead dog and cat characters, Boomer and Halley, to introduce children to a wide range of values including respect, common courtesy, parental respect and personal responsibility.
“The thing is, books can only teach so much,” she said. “There is NO replacement for parenting – not educational TV shows, not books, not even the best school on the planet can replace caring, attentive parents. That’s why I’m on my holiday crusade to remind parents that the holiday season should really set the tone for the whole following year.”
McKittrick’s tips include:
1) Common Courtesy – This runs the gamut from being on time, holding the door for